by INFORUM
Club featuring nude dancers tiptoes into outskirts of Fargo
October 19, 2010 at 7:08 pm in INFORUM
For an establishment with decidedly hardcore undertones, Bada Bing, a new fully nude strip club on the outskirts of Fargo, certainly staged a soft opening. Continue Reading
Good luck! A metro area pushing a quarter million people needs a place like this. It’s going to improve the entertainment scene in the area and since it’s not in town, it shouldn’t offend the EOUCNDPP. (AKA Easily Offended Ultra Conservative North Dakota Puritan Prudes)
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I’m sure that is right by where you live with your superior holier than all attitude. People need to leave it alone – if you don’t like it don’t go – you live your life and keep you religious self serving morally superior attitude to yourself – people are tired of being lectured.
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I have no preference either way, don’t really care. Still reading these posts I can’t believe how some people stoop to the level of trying to slam religions before any have even spoken? Shows an unbelievable lack of cognizant ability and understanding. This club will attract a small crowd that will undoubtedly have its share of scum. So do some churches, but I think we all know which of the two locations has the most undesirables.
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You are refering to churches as having the most undesirables I presume.
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Terrific and what’s wrong with it, nothing. A man has the God given right to see a beautifull girl nude and enjoy entoxicating liquids and eat grilled animal.
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I can almost feel my brain cells melting after that comment ….
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Nobody forces these girls to dance nude. You look but don’t touch, that’s respect.
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Women also have a God given right to do what they darn well please. I’m pretty sure these ADULT women are doing this on their own free will, because they want to.
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But the women have no problem going to chippendales and such. Difference?
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you are 100% right louann! Thank God it’s not a law that all women HAVE to work there. I aggree with your statment 100%….. (but isn’t it kind of redundant? kind of stating the obvious… something that already is)
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I agree with what your statement Louann, but i do not aggree with what you meant. What you said is what you meant. And what you meant is redunant and kind of pointless. Why do you act like people don’t have a right to choose where they work?
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If you learned how to read you’d know they aren’t licensed to serve food or liquor. Plus if you wanted a call girl just look on Craigs List or the newspaper.
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This is what free enterprise is all about. I hope it survives
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I hope it doesn’t, but I won’t support laws against it. I’ll just not go there, and hope enough people feel the same way.
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Don’t go then.
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Absolutely!! I would have NO PROBLEM telling my grandmother about being a stripper!! and believe me she would be supportive of any decision I need to make to support my family!!
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My mom and grandma quit stripping years ago.
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Oh, MB3 that’s just sour grapes since you didn’t make the cut 30 years ago. I heard they have ol’ lady night on Tuesdays. Try, try again.
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Jujubee, my mother was a feminist who worked for the Equal Rights Ammendment (ERA). She was the regional secretary for the National Organization for Women (NOW).
She was VERY clear on her opinion of this kind of enterprise. These women are ground breakers of womens rights who chose what they do with their bodies, and as long as they do so with total free choice, they open the doors for YOU to make any choices you want in what you wear or where you can go.
You should be commending them, not ostracizing them.
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The men who attend places like this are the ones getting the short end of the stick. The women just run around with no clothes on and the guy’s throw their money at them. The girls are just doing what they can in a free economy to make money off of men. They can likely make more money at a place like this than they could doing anything else, so I do not believe that they are being treated poorly by being paid to do nothing except look good (or not so good) naked. Don’t get me wrong, the men have the right to spend the money on whatever they want. It just is not a good value in my opinion.
As far as NOW is concerned, any activity that diminishes the role of family in American life is acceptable and encouraged. The only oppression women really face in the eyes of these women’s groups is marriage and children.
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Everybody is a sex object to somebody! Otherwise how did we all get here?
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Everyone burn your bras………
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“A large portion of these girls arent doing this by choice.”
False. Everybody has a choice. Nobody is forced to do it.
“They’re doing it because they feel they have no other option in life.”
On what authority do you make this claim? How do you think you know this?
“They’re doing it because they’ve never known what its like to have a man respect a woman.”
Come on. Now you’re just being silly. You have no way of knowing why strippers are strippers and you certainly can’t stake the claim that they’re poor, abused-by-men slaves with no options in life. Oh, those darn men, right?
In any case, what you just posted is not true, nor would you have any way of qualifying such a bold assertion.
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I agree, in fact I wouldn’t be surprised if some of these women are married.
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I assume you used to work in the same line of work as these gals, since you know what they are thinking and know what their choices are and what experiences they’ve had in life. Isn’t it possible that they might like what they do?
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They are not that poor. They get payed very well to show off their bodies.
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Sounds like a bitter woman who can’t dance!
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Not by choice? They see it as easy money rather than going and working somewhere else. In NY they have lawyers who quit because they could make more money stripping!
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NOW at one time was an important group that advocated for womens rights. But today their numbers have shrank dramaticaly. They take positions that are no longer supported by the majority of American women. They totally devalue and deride any woman who has a conservative political view or wants to be a stay at home mother. They have become nothing but a shrill voice for the liberal adjenda, a shadow of the former great organization of womens rights that is was.
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Vertigo, I agree with your opinion of women having the right to choose and do what they wish with their bodies because that is their choice whether other people agree or not and i am not saying whether i do or not
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yes, I can
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looks like a classy place, it will make the customers feel right at home!
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Knock off of the Sopranos. Cept this one won’t have any mobsters….. its to bad.
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Our city has progressed past the point of back warehouse secret rooms used for entertainment. Its time our CITY PLANNER…. oops we don’t really have one do we…..
Its time for our City Planner to develop districts so venues like this are placed in appropriate locations. They should be grouped so they are not only convenient for the patrons, but compliment other business’s success in the community and are easy to have appropriate law enforcement.
To try to zone them out is not only backwards and puritanical, but it establishes a business environment where prostitution and drug dealing will prevail and the law will have difficulty dealing with it because they set up an adversarial relationship with the business owners.
If these people are not allowed to sell alcohol, or any other products, how do you think they will pay their bills? Think about it.
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I like this. Kinda like a stripper strip-mall.
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Now AnLa no need to profile LOL
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HEY! I got all my teath!
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Ashamed to say I had to look it up. Sounds like something I would like, though.
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It is delicious….
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I got all mine too. I keep them in a jar.
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Neither will some of the dancers, whats your point?
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It’s no different than The Northern or some of the few ‘adult toy stores’ we have around here. It’s not like they have a big advertising push. To each their own. If you don’t like stuff like that then don’t go. But don’t sit there and bash other people for going. I personally don’t have the need or reason to go to a place like this, HOWEVER… I see nothing wrong with making entertainment like this available to those who do like it. It’s a free country. It’s quite apparent that Mr Benzinger is being proactive and respectful of Fargo residents. He’s not looking to make a big deal out of this and neither should we. He’s just trying to run a business. Give the man a chance.
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At this point its legal, so are we now going to crucify someone for attending a legal event – kinda like making scum out of people who smoke (which is still a legal product). Get a grip and its not just guys who are paying admission to these places.
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Liberty, you’re missing my irony. Everyone’s in a rush to assign blame and accountability and morality and all that to everyone they can possibly think of, except the guys who attend. No tickets sold, no club. Duh. Don’t like the club, don’t go. Duh. Like the club? Have fun.
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I bet there will be 40 to 50 percent women there. So quit saying guys that go there.
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Speaking of that my wife will go with me when we go there.
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That’s what I’ll be telling the ladies! That or there is always the car ride home…
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What “accountability” should frequenters of strip establishments have??
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Absolutely none. Just an observation that a group so eager to assign accountability (blame?) to everyone didn’t mention the guys who pay to enjoy the entertainment. Frankly, I haven’t had this much fun making stupid wisecracks in a long time.
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You said “crack”. Shuuunnnn!!!!!!!
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The majority of ALL those who smoke? The magority? you are making that up.
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No ashtrays in new cars.
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there are people who litter ALOT of differnt things…. should we ban eating and call those who eat scum? Should we ban shopping at grocery stores cuz i see alot of plastic grocery bags blowing around and caught on fences. So maybe the majority of those who shop through out that stuff? I know there are alot of cigarett butts laying around, but i don’t see how you can look at any one smoker and label them a litterer and a disrespectfual human…..
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whoops… *Throw. bad typing
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so do your kids with their candy wrappers and pop cans
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The have the same law in the Cities. Serve alcohol? Bottoms stay on. Don’t serve alcohol? Bottoms can come off.
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Which is a VERY good idea. The more alcohol I have, the more likely my pants are to come off.
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I didn’t realize that strip joints can be fully nude if they don’t serve alcohol. I admire the dancers that do it, in a way. I couldn’t strip if I knew the customers were sober. If they were intoxicated I wouldn’t feel so self-conscious and I could. Not that they’d want me to. haha
Yeah, the facility looks like it could use some sprucing up, but I’m sure that will come in time, if it’s a success.
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In Nebraska there is a strip club that allows you to bring your own alcohol in. Since they do not serve, they can be fully nude. I wonder if that would work here.
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I don’t know. I have never been there. Just pointing out that there may be options for boozing and watching naked ladies at the same time.
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On another note, I would doubt that these ladies are fully degraded. Mexico and Thailand may offer more options for degradation than you can enjoy here. I don’t know that it is desperate either. Seems like two parties making a transaction for mutual benefit to me.
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I seriously hope not. As a dancer I would be more willing to work at an establishment that didn’t allow alcohol or intoxicated patrons entry. To me it’s an issue of respect for the fully nude dancers and can help minimizes incidents of harassment. The chance of harassment should be avoided at all costs.
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So I’m sure there are groups meeting RIGHT NOW who are setting up schedules to lurk nearby and gather license plate numbers so they can contact some long-suffering wife and let her know what her husband was REALLY doing when he said he was going to wash the mini-van.
Hmmm, I wonder how that fits into protecting traditional marriage?
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I wouldn’t count on it. I know the people in a small community near me felt the same way when one of these clubs slipped in unnoticed. It’s going on 15 years and the club is as active as ever, if not more so.
I am kind of surprised at how many couples frequent the place. I’d always assumed it would be older, single guys.
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Opinionated, you have no way of knowing what motivates people to walk through the doors and patronize the place. Are you posting that opinion because that has been your motivation in the past?
Either way, you are not qualified to speak for every potential customer and tell everybody why they’re there, sorry. No offense.
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Actually default I am qualified. I’ve known several women who did this because I used to live in a motel many years ago where the local strippers stayed while in town. Got to know them very well and all about the profession. Over half were moms trying to make it with a kid and working a few hundred miles from home to avoid being recognized. A fourth were total scum and the remainder I didn’t meet. I also know a lot about the clientele at these places and you’d be hard pressed to find many men there. Usually old perverts looking to get off, a lot of drunks, and some young guys going to have fun on a guy’s night out. The majority are just old perverts and scum bags. This place WILL die soon. It’s a dive, has a poor location, and without booze the drunks won’t even want to go there. On rare occasion I’ve gone to a few men’s clubs with friends but there’s nothing in this region I’d want to see.
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Opinionated, do you realize what you just admitted to, without actually admitting it?
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That he was a young guy having fun on a guy’s night out?
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Garrett, Yes I’ve been to a few over the years, it was fun, and I was with some guys who wanted to check it out for fun. No I have no reason to want to go again, wasn’t that taken by it. Someday if with the right group of people, perhaps?Whatever. Fact still remains that the majority of the clientel who go there are sleezey guys and drunks. If you can’t seperate the groups you simply will never undrstand. This region can’t support such a club with high quality entertainers so that rules out businessmen. The drunks have no real reason to go. Some kids will always go for fun just to check it out and do the manly thing for acting out in front of their friends for a brief perod of time. Still the majority who need to go there are scum bags looking for a cheap thrill and most of them do it drinking. Actually the funnest part about going to these places (for a normal person) is to look at what fools so many guys make of themselves. That’s really the most entertaining part. It’s a total comedy from that perspective. I am just still turned on more than enough by my wife and don’t need the inspiration. Kind of hard to get into the mood around a bunch of guys like tat anyhow:-)
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So, all you dads and grandfathers, you want your daughters/granddaughters to work there? Really??????
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The club, which employs about seven dancers on weeknights and as many as 20 on weekends, had a busy first few days, bringing a few hundred customers in the door during peak hours, Benzinger said.
Good for the local economy and all those girls who are “working their way through school.”
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Oops. I meant to say, “No, but I want your daughter/granddaughter to work there.”
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LOL, reworking the old saw, huh Jujubee? Whats your point, that its not a desirable job? Would you like me to list a few other jobs I would NOT want my daughter to work? Roofing. Daycare. Waiting on tables. Mass production factory work.
Yes, its an undesirable job, but if its the choice SHE makes, I will love her no matter WHAT she does.
It saddens me, because your underlying point is that if YOUR daughter were to do that, you would reject her.
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Why does a person who supports the right of the business to exist, and the patrons to have it to patroinze have to want their own child to work there? Why is that a 1:1 relationship in your head? I think that’s a much deeper question you may want to answer for yourself in private…
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Juju, no I probably wouldn’t want a daughter to work there, but then I don’t try to control people or make them conform to my beliefs.
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Michael just named all my favorite hangouts
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I would suggest someone open a bar next to it called “Bada Boom”.
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It doesn’t affect me. I’m not likely to go there, and I’m sure I’d get paid more for keeping my clothes ON, so whatever works for whoever wants to work there or go watch.
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make “bada boom” similar to the moonlight bunny ranch… then we got somethin cooking
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Did anyone catch their hours of operation?
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PARTY AT THE BADA BING!!!
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I assume that since there is no alcohol that the age to enter is only 18. Should be a good draw from all the collages in town.
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Who remebers the “Surf Club” out in WF? Nobody? It offered the same entertainment with no booze, once the novelty wore off it slowly died. This place will be no different because as the Forum keeps telling us, we LOVE to drink up here.
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Tts nd pss!
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why is this comment staying on here but my comment about a toilet seat was removed ????? huh??
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Trolling again? lol. Staying on topic? My comment was very much on topic.
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As much as I don’t actually support places like this, I get the “guy” thing and don’t have any strong feelings against it. I hope the young ladies dancing keep it on the “up and up” and don’t do anything more than dance – for their own sake.
There are a whole lot worse sorts of bars that could show up around here.
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Whoa whoa whoa… How can you make a statement like “This is a country of open thought and freedom” when you just made the statement “How can a community permit such shameful activities in its midst?”. That’s very hypocritical. I’m not defending mamabear, that was very out of line too. But you make no sense. A place like this exists because members of the community want it to. Not all, but some. And they are allotted that freedom. Stop trying to be our moral compass, if you can’t get your own straight. This might not have flown where you are from, but your not there anymore.
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Abu-slash-vertigo–your mom called my house. She needs you to bring your macaroni and cheese/dirty dinner plate upstairs from your computer dungeon so that she can finish loading the dishwasher…
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Come on………. that’s not nice. Go to your room for at least 15 minutes.
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Grandma–c’mon now…you don’t actually think “Abu” is from around these parts do you now? (or recently emigrated to these parts?) ….I think you better check under the bridge for trolls/sockpuppets/etc……
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I don’t. He’s nothing more than a forum troll. If its vert, i cannot say. But he really does a poor job of attempting to simulate a muslim.
Take his avatar, if you go to google and type in ‘muslim man’ and then go to images, suprise there is his avatar. Which in turn is a picture taken by David Zimmerly, and honestly whomever the person is just broke the copyright infringement laws by unlawfully using his image without his permission.
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Why do you think I would use my own picture in this place? Am I to assume Miss Bastet looks like a leaf? Grandma is a red bloom? And is Viking a caricature? I would not feel safe using my own picture, as some of you point out you carry weapons. I am not sure of my safety with you.
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@ Abu careful. your non-muslim verbage is showing.
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Hey, Abu–if your real name is Abu, my real name is actually Jasmine.
I’m pictured here with my friend, Jafar.
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Miss Bastet, I see you live in Alaska and are 96 years old. You are honest, yes?
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Abu: honest and stupid are two different things. Perhaps you have not learned this yet…in your attempt to assimilate into American culture? (chuckle)
hey, I heard they make sunblock in an spf 100 ? is that right? I wouldn’t know, Aladdin and I don’t need it–but I hear that Norwegians that sit on their computer in their basement all day should think about applying it when they do go out in the sun.
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Miss Basttet, which one are you? Honest or stupid?
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Honest. And at the same time, honestly not stupid….
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Well, even though you’re NOT Bastet (isn’t that from mythology) are you from Egypt?
Who knows is “abu” is from the middle east or the middle school….
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Grandma–my guess is the middle school…;)
…but it looks like he’s going to run with it as JFK …. (hey abu–the other pic was funnier, bring it back)
and no, I am not Egyptian (although if I think about it I could probably pass for an Egyptian–sure what the heck
–Bastet is a french name–but also the name for an Egyptian cat-headed goddess..you know the gods with the head of an animal/body of a human….weird but funny….it’s sort of a long story/ inside joke …I can change my pic to that, when I get sick of the Halloween people ha 
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It’s called freedom of speech and free enterprise. Something civilized nations very much enjoy
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I feel like the appearance of this building just builds on the trashy appearance
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Brent’s comment For The Win at 9:36 PM!
Abu you need to look deeply within yourself to determine if you come to a new place, whether your intent is to assimilate to the local culture, or try imposing your morals and culture on the new location you come to.
It is very narrow minded of you to earlier state that this is ” a country of open thought and freedeom” and then in the next breath try imposing your narrow version of morality onto others. Rather you should be celebrating that everyone gets to share their views without fear of reprisal from poorly educated Mulah’s who refer to a book written by uneducated herdsman as the source of all knowing wisdom!
Food for thought. If you have the ability to open your mind.
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Wrong again Vertigo. You missed my point completely. I’m just wondering how some guy can sit there oggling someone else’s daughter,mother,wife,etc and think it’s okay and how would he feel if some other guy were doing that to his family members. I find it interesting you used the word “saw”. I guess I cut into your conscience.
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“Just Wondering”…. um, perhaps better phrased as “Just Judgeing”
You know, people don’t take a moral high ground to make the world a better place, they do it do control other people.
Like it not Jujubee, sex is a product that is sold, it always has been, is now, and will always be. Its an adult product borne of individual freedom. As long as you have adults willing to buy it, it will be sold.
Live with it, and instead of judging people for something you have no control over, try to guide it in a healthy direction.
Remember, Mary Magdelene was someones daughter too.
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Vertigo–I was molested. I don’t consider myself as judging but as a voice crying in the wildneress to make sure people understand what is at stake and that they are opening up a can of worms they will be unable to control.
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Gee Jujubee, I didn’t realize you went into a stripclub and got molested! Oh.. .I know, it didn’t happen IN the club, but outside after the perverts left…. no????
I know, the perverts left a strip club drunk.. oops, that can’t have happened here, huh? Well lets assume they did… and they molested you THEN!!!
I think you are getting the point. I am sorry you had something bad happen to you, but to castigate people… justifying it because you were molested is not only innapropriated but it does injustice to those who actually were molested. It undermines their story and their pain for your moralistic self serving purposes.
Just because something bad happened to you doesn’t give you the right to judge. Picket courtrooms to get stricter punishments of molestors… not take away adult entertainment from adults.
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Strip clubs don’t promote molestation, nor are they a cause of it. I’m not sure why you chose to share that detail with us all, especially considering its total irrelevance to the article you’re commenting on.
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